A Comprehensive List for Christian Parents Trying To Raise Self-Disciplined Children

A comprehensive list of 31 challenges vital for Christian parents to be aware of if they want to raising self-disciplined children in a world where influences of the world are raging war against their children, from the creator of the transforming coaching program, Wholesome Influencers and Influencing Your Kids Podcast.

This resource helps you to forget your mistakes, by equipping you to do it right moving forward.

We believe that eternity is only ONE influence away and it is the parent’s duty to equip their children to willingly choose the right way while resisting the wrong way

Intentional Curriculum Determines Culture

Intimiate Community Opens Hearts

Internal Thoughts Forms Character & Conduct

“None of us can be proof against the influences that proceed from the persons he associates with. Wherefore, in books and men, let us look out for the best society, that which yields a bracing and wholesome influence.”

Charlotte Mason

This ‘Christian Exodus‘ Is A Two-Part Problem

Parenting has changed, and not for the better.

Christian parents are doing all they know how to do to pass on their faith to their children.

Often times, parents know that what they are doing isn’t working but they are clueless why their efforts to do things better isn’t working.

Trying to improve on what isn’t working isn’t going to make any difference.

Parenting different is what will make the changes you truly desire to transform your family so that your children don’t become part of the rising statistics of young adults walking away from their parents faith.

Before you can parent different, you must understand the two-part problem that has led to the decline in the morals of our culture and influencing our children to abandon their parent’s faith completely.  


Do as I say, not as I do” type of parenting is turning the hearts of children away from the parents and to the influence of this world that is all accepting to any belief or behavior.

The answer to this problem is to ‘live out your faith… faithfully’ and become intentional to influence your kids with this faith through your example and their education. 

The solution is to join the movement that inspires you to be intentional in your choice to live out your faith faithfully.   


Parents don’t realize that there are four parts to education: intellectual, spiritual, moral, and physical, which is why 70% of young adults are rejecting their childhood faith and conforming to the conduct of this world.

The answer to this problem is to supply a ‘Christian education’, either in a private school or at home.

Discovery the solution in the 5-day LIVE workshop that inspires you to home educate your child with a method that prepares your children to take their place in society with YOUR Christian faith.  

The underlining root cause to these problems, both for parents and for children, is the influences that form our nature. 

Christian parents must discover how to influence their kids, while living out their faith faithfully, to ensure they raise self-disciplined children who willingly carry their faith into adulthood. 

It all starts by understanding how to influence your children to willingly form habits of faith.


At the core of EVERYTHING we teach is wholesome influences. 

Without the foundational understanding of how influence works, your children will continue to disobey you more and more, until they have a rebellious heart. 

Our mission is to equip Christian parents to become masters of influence, so they can raise self-disciplined children who willingly carry their faith into adulthood and live out their faith… faithfully! 

To do that, we’ve made Influence Your Kids Workshop available to binge watch, time and time again. 


Influencing Your Kids, a podcast dedicated to equipping Christian parents with the foundation to transform their families with wholesome influences that battle against the rulers, authorities, powers of this dark world and the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Listen up, Christian parents, and stop fighting with your kids!

The butting of heads, battles of the wills, and power struggles is NOT against flesh and blood, but against the influences of this world.

Get ready to transform your family as their God-ordained BEST influence, so you can raise disciples who become WHOLESOME INFLUENCERS, like you, for His Kingdom!

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If you want to pass on your Christian faith but don’t know where to start, you’re in the right place! I’ll equip you to raise self-disciplined children who willingly carry YOUR faith into adulthood.


As parents, we must recognize that our children consist of FOUR different people: who they are in front of us, who they are in front of their friends, who they are in front of other authorities in their life, and who they are when they are alone.

The common struggle facing parents today is that there comes a time when they no longer recognize their children, but they have no idea what they have done wrong or what to do differently to change their reality.

In Level One, Lasting Influences provides you with the step-by-step journey to why this happens, what is going on in a child’s mind that is causing this normal behavior, and how to come alongside your child in a way that impresses and teaches your Christian values to your children.


As Christian parents, we must recognize that we come into marriage with two approaches to parenting that can quickly cause division within the family.

The common struggle facing Christian parents today is that children quickly learn how to manipulate parents into getting their desires, by pinning the parents against each other, while the parents put the blame of their family’s condition on the other.

In Level Two, Wholesome Couples provides you with the step-by-step journey to making parenting decisions together without the conflict, creating pre-determined consequences you both enforce, and committing to fighting for each other, not against each other so your children are influenced by how a Christian marriage works to fulfill their Kingdom assignment – TOGETHER.


As homeschooling parents, we must recognize that our daily choices are forming habits in ourselves and our children that are good, bad, and indifferent.

The common struggle facing homeschool moms today is that life demands so much of her that it crowds out the priority of education, often times resulting in children falling behind, leaving the mother exhausted and overwhelmed by the weight of her children’s education resting on her shoulders.

In Level Three, Smooth & Easy Days provides you with the step-by-step journey to making time decisions, removing redundant decisions, and finally, scheduling all of your life demands, including dependent learners education so your children form habits that will carry them well into their careers.


As parents, we must recognize that curriculum is intentionally designed to influence the culture by determining acceptable behavior based on the beliefs of the majority.

The common struggle facing parents today is that public education has removed prayer and Bible from their curriculum. The only real solution to this problem is to provide a Christian education to your children, either in the form of a private education or parental education.

In Level Four, Wholesome Thinkers provides you with the step-by-step journey to why children struggle to learn, how the mind works to convert information into knowledge, and what are the key things you need to do to homeschool your children so they are equipped with a diploma and a Christian faith as they take their place into world as an adulthood.

Wholesome Influencers™ is unlike any coaching you’ve seen before. With faith as the foundation, Dollie will guide and assist you through all FOUR levels to influence, unify, teach, and train your children so you can go from constant conflict to happier households. When you commit to stepping into your role as a wholesome influencer and renew your mind, you can do everything required of you as a Christian parent so your children willlingly carrys YOUR faith into adulthood.